Wednesday, March 07, 2007

Big Meeting: Friday, March 9 -- Don't Miss It

This battle over sex education is something bigger than Montgomery County -- in fact, we ought to remember we're the lucky ones. We live in a place where most people are pretty cool about accepting differences between people, our county is more educated than most, more diverse than most -- more progressive than most. We fight this battle knowing that we have the support of our community, at least. We know people here want inclusive, comprehensive sex education for our public school students.

Some places aren't like that. Some places people demand conformity, there's a lot of pressure on you to obey the law of the herd. Shelby Knox came from one of those places: Lubbock, Texas, home of Buddy Holly, immortalized by Mac Davis in the line, "Happiness was Lubbock Texas in my rear view mirror."

Shelby was raised as a conservative Christian Texas girl, and ended up starting a Gay-Straight Alliance at her high school and pushing for comprehensive sex-ed. I won't spoil it for you, let's just say it was an uphill fight, and in the end there's not much you can really do about some things. This is all filmed in a documentary, The Education of Shelby Knox, which played at the Sundance film festival in 2005.

The news is that Shelby herself will be in Ashburn, Virginia, tomorrow, Friday, March 9th. This press release from Mainstream Loudon:
Mainstream Loudoun reported today that youth activist Shelby Knox is coming to Loudoun on Friday, March 9th to participate in a program that will address the need for a responsible, fact-based approach to sex education in our community. The program — “What’s So Scary about Information? An Evening with Shelby Knox” — will start at 7:15 p.m. and will take place in the Building 1 Auditorium on George Washington University’s Ashburn campus. The program is free and open to the public. Sponsors include Mainstream Loudoun, the Unitarian Universalist Church of Loudoun, and St. James United Church of Christ.

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The March 9th program will include a screening of a documentary that was made about Shelby’s campaign. This documentary — “The Education of Shelby Knox” — has won numerous awards, including “Best Cinematography” from the Sundance Film Festival in 2005. PBS has also featured the film as part of its Point of View series. After the screening, Shelby Knox and Jennifer Aulwes, State Policy Coordinator for the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States, will conduct a panel discussion with the audience.

Loudon County isn't that far away from us, geographically or demographically. It's just a quick spin around the Beltway.

But they're starting to worry down there that their sex-ed curriculum could fall to the betterthanyous. As they note in their press release:
Mainstream Loudoun has previously reported concerns about an “abstinence-only” trend in Loudoun County Public Schools. This year alone, three local high schools — Loudoun County, Dominion, and Douglass — have invited comedian and abstinence-only proponent Keith Deltano to conduct assemblies for the entire student body. Mainstream Loudoun members attended two of the assemblies as well as a parent workshop and reported that Mr. Deltano used scare tactics and shock value, withheld and misrepresented medical information, and promoted stereotypes about boys and girls.

“Our children are walking out of these assemblies unprepared and misinformed,” said Ms. Hawes. “There are better ways to teach the benefits of abstinence and better ways to protect our children. We hope that a conversation with Shelby Knox can help point us in the right direction.”

Hey, there's nothing else going on, right?

Go.

11 Comments:

Blogger Orin Ryssman said...

(Recovering from a mean, nasty and viscious viral infection...)

Having seen The Education of Shelby Knox (rented it thru Netflix) I can make this one observation for now...

Ms. Knox certainly does start out wanting to reform the Lubbock, Texas public schools sex ed curriculum. That was straightforward and simple enough. But "mission creep" sets in and by the end of the "documentary" (I place that in scare quotes because it is clear by the end that what was viewed was an advocacy piece) she has signed on to much more than condoms, birth control pills and safe sex. Even my gay friend, who watched it with me concluded that Ms. Knox had shifted her focus by the end of the film.

"The Education of Shely Knox"? Please, don't insult my intelligence...more like "The Seduction of Shelby Knox".

March 08, 2007 7:43 AM  
Blogger Orin Ryssman said...

Sponsors include Mainstream Loudoun, the Unitarian Universalist Church of Loudoun, and St. James United Church of Christ.

Yet, over at "Mainstream" Loudoun it states,

To preserve religious and personal freedom, to maintain the separation of church and state, and to counter the imposition through public policy of one religious tradition over others.

"the Unitarian Universalist Church of Loudoun, and St. James United Church of Christ"

No surprise here...all the usual suspects...still, isn't the hypocrisy a little glaring? Oh, silly me, I should know better...it is ok because the Unitarians and UCC are "progressive" religions. When will I learn?

March 08, 2007 8:52 AM  
Blogger JimK said...

Orin, I don't see how it's hypocritical for a church to have an opinion about something like sex ed. The Unitarians don't tell everybody else to believe like them, but they certainly can host a meeting that supports their views, just like the Catholics can have speakers who oppose abortion.

JimK

March 08, 2007 8:59 AM  
Blogger Orin Ryssman said...

Oh, and it appears that Ms. Hawes is not just any parent, but also (at one time) President of Mainstream Loudoun...sounds like a TTF clone.

March 08, 2007 9:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Someone was smart enough to clone us? There is hope after all! (But hope is not a method...)

March 08, 2007 10:04 AM  
Blogger Orin Ryssman said...

This from,

http://gay_blog.blogspot.com/
2005_06_01_archive.html

Weintraub, along with Mainstream Loudoun President Cathy Hawes and the group’s former president Jeri McGiverin, charged that the controversy was not the result of a “huge community outcry” but a campaign engineered by Del. Dick Black (R-32), Supervisor Eugene Delgaudio (R-Sterling) and right-wing national advocacy groups.

From original post,

Mainstream Loudoun members attended two of the assemblies as well as a parent workshop and reported that Mr. Deltano used scare tactics and shock value, withheld and misrepresented medical information, and promoted stereotypes about boys and girls.

All the usual SIECUS talking points...yawn.

And finally, Jim writes,

Orin, I don't see how it's hypocritical for a church to have an opinion about something like sex ed. The Unitarians don't tell everybody else to believe like them, but they certainly can host a meeting that supports their views, just like the Catholics can have speakers who oppose abortion.

Opps, sorry, I was not clear about who I was directing the charge of hypocrisy against. Not the churches, Mainstream Loudoun...since after all they are for a Separation of Church and State, except of course when it helps them with their political agenda.

Oh, and about the United Church of Christ...isn't that the same church that produced a public information commercial that was so extreme (not to mention defamatory) that all the major networks rejected the ad? Judge for yourself,

http://www.stillspeaking.com/
default.htm

Sigh, I guess when a church loses members right (religious) and left (secular) as the UCC has for years, even those claiming to take the high road will...sooner or later...fall prey to the low blow.

March 08, 2007 11:01 AM  
Blogger JimK said...

Orin, clearly this issue stirs you. A group supports the separation of church and state, but meets at a church. Excuse me, I'm missing the contradiction.

And you can go to Youtube or somewhere and see the UCC ads, I blogged about that when it happened. The ads did not appear objectionable at all, that's what was so weird about the networks turning them down.

JimK

March 08, 2007 11:26 AM  
Blogger Randi Schimnosky said...

Orin, you call those ads exteme and defamatory?! Get real, there was nothing wrong with those ads. How about you explain what you think was extreme or defamatory about them - I could use a good laugh.

March 08, 2007 1:10 PM  
Blogger Dana Beyer, M.D. said...

The ads were shut down because of pressure from the Bush administration, the same guys who've been using the DOJ and CIA as political tools. These guys are going down. This administration is the worst disgrace in American history, from Iraq to Afghanistan to Katrina and Abu Ghraib and trashing science and now the firing of AGs and Cheney manipulating intelligence.

March 08, 2007 1:55 PM  
Blogger andrear said...

Orin, Do you recognize that there are religous groups that believe in the separation of church and state and those that do not? I am not saying anything about these particular churches(I don't know that much about them). There are those who say we should have prayer or bible reading in public schools and claim this is non-denominational/ not religious. And yes, "progressive" churches are much more likely to believe in the separation of church and state-they are not so eager to use every platform to convert others.

March 08, 2007 4:28 PM  
Anonymous Aunt Bea said...

Please, don't insult my intelligence...more like "The Seduction of Shelby Knox".

The more Shelby studied the sex education offered in her school and the effects of that education on her peers, the more she learned and wanted to know. Shelby's parents gave her guidance but allowed her to make up her own mind about what she wanted to do about sex education offered in their home town. She talked to everybody she could find to talk to, people on both sides of various issues and she made up her own mind.

You call that seduction? Do you also think you seduced yourself from being a Mormon to being a Catholic?

March 08, 2007 4:55 PM  

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